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๐—š๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—ด๐—น๐—ฒ ๐—š๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ถ ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐—น๐˜€. ๐——๐—ถ๐—ฑ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜†๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ๐˜€๐—ธ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚?

  • Writer: candyandgrim
    candyandgrim
  • Dec 1, 2025
  • 2 min read

Woke up to discover Gemini automatically scraping through my Gmail, attachments, documents. No opt-in I can remember. No GDPR-style consent flow. Just...on by default.


This isn't just Google anymore. WeTransfer, Vimeo, Dropboxโ€“platforms I've trusted since 2010 with private client work, confidential communications, years of creative projectsโ€“are quietly pivoting to "AI training data providers" without meaningful consultation or compensation.



๐—™๐—ถ๐—ณ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐˜†๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜€. I've been with Vimeo and Dropbox since 2010. Built my entire creative workflow around these platforms. And now I have to migrate thousands of files, restructure my entire pipeline, because the rules changed without warning.


It's honestly sad to see things end this way.



Here's how to lock down your Gmail from Gemini (for now):


ย 1. Gmail Settings โ†’ See all settings โ†’ Chat and Meet


ย 2. Disable "Smart Compose" and "Smart Reply"


ย 3. Settings โ†’ General โ†’ "Smart features and personalization"


ย 4. Uncheck both personalization options


ย 5. Google Account โ†’ Data & Privacy โ†’ Web & App Activity โ†’ Turn off (nuclear option)



But here's the real question I'm wrestling with:


What platforms actually guarantee privacy from AI scraping/training across:



๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—บ๐˜€ ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐˜๐˜‚๐—ฎ๐—น๐—น๐˜† ๐—ด๐˜‚๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฒ ๐—ฝ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐˜† ๐—ณ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—บ ๐—”๐—œ ๐˜€๐—ฐ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ฝ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด?


ย โ€ข ๐—˜๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐—น:ย Proton, Tutanota (encrypted),ย Appleย iCloud Mail (doesn't train on user data),ย Microsoftย Outlook (claims protection but opaque opt-outs) | Gmail โŒ


ย โ€ข ๐—™๐—ถ๐—น๐—ฒ ๐—ฆ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ด๐—ฒ:ย Sync.comย ($4.80/mo, 2TB, zero-knowledge), Tresorit (Swiss, $19-27/mo), Internxt (blockchain, $3.60/mo, 3TB)


ย โ€ข ๐—ฉ๐—ถ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ผ ๐—›๐—ผ๐˜€๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด: Spotlightr ($15/mo, encrypted), PeerTube (self-hosted), SproutVideo


ย โ€ข ๐—•๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐˜„๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด:ย Brave, Firefox + uBlock Origin,ย DuckDuckGo


ย โ€ข ๐—ฆ๐—ผ๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐—ฎ๐—น: Mastodon (federated, tiny network effects) | Mainstream platforms all train on your content


Without retreating into insular blockchain channels or fringe services



๐— ๐—ถ๐—ด๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ด๐—ผ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐˜€๐˜€๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜๐—ฎ๐—ธ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด. Years of client projects. Thousands of video files. Workflows built over 15 years. But after the Getty v. Stability AI ruling and building my own three-tier AI safety framework, this isn't optional anymore.


We need mainstream, interoperable alternatives that respect privacy as a default, not as a premium upsell. The "Satoshi Nakamoto approach" worked for decentralized currency. Where's that energy for decentralized, private infrastructure?


Right now, the choice seems to be: accept surveillance capitalism or become a digital hermit.



What are you using?ย 


What actually works?ย 


Has anyone else made this migration?



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